Three First Date Topics To Avoid If You Want To Have Sex
If you met a girl on an adult dating site, then you already know she’s planning on ending the night on top of you. But, that doesn’t mean she won’t change her mind if you blow the date. Here are three topics to avoid on a date if you want to have sex:
1. Hot Debate Issues
“Okay, okay! I take back what I said about The Bachelor!”
Politics. Religion. Pro-life vs. pro-choice.
Even sports can risky if you’re with a die-hard fan. You don’t want to talk about anything that will put you in a heated debate. If you have opposing views on anything it may be enough of a deal-breaker for her to
walk out of the date and find someone else to spend her night with. And if you have the same views on a controversial issue, chances are that now you’ll spend a bunch of time talking about that instead of keeping the focus on having fun together now and anticipating the fun you’ll have together later.
You also have to watch out for unexpected deal-breaker issues. You’d be surprised how quickly a woman can turn on you if you casually mention that you think her favorite show is dumb.
2. Her Flaws
“What did he mean when he said he likes women with some meat on their bones?”
Someone might have told you that knocking a woman down a few pegs will make it easier to get in her pants, and while that MAY (being the keyword here) be true, it actually works to your disadvantage. Maybe the self-consciousness you’ve recently
instilled in her will make more inclined to turn to
sex to make her feel better, but it means she’s already uncomfortable with the sex from the beginning. You won’t get the actions or reactions you’re hoping for from a self-conscious girl. If you want a bedroom session full of deep guttural moaning, screaming of names, and all around kinky, hot, rough sex, then you want a girl full of confidence.
And
while you’re at it, don’t point out any of your flaws either! While it’s true that women find that small flaws can be endearing and even attractive, they want to discover them on their own and maybe think you’re self-conscious about them (adds to the endearment, I’ve been told). They DO NOT want to be made painfully aware of all your flaws just because you think it might be an interesting point of conversation or you’ve been told self-deprecating humour is appropriate when you’re uncomfortable.
3. Your Ex
“If he says one more word about this Kathy bitch I am going to scream.”
NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR ABOUT EXES. PERIOD. But on a first date? Even less so! There’s nothing that will hurt your chances of getting that lovely lady
in bed more than talking about an ex-girlfriend. There’s no need to even go into a detailed explanation here. Just don’t do it. If you don’t know better
than to not talk about your exes on a first date, then you shouldn’t be using such an amazing adult dating site in the first place!
Remember: you want to keep the conversation light and fun. You’ve already put in the hard work before you even start the date, so all you have to do it not fuck it up. For guaranteed success follow our adult dating guide and join the best adult dating sites on the web!
